well, she DID choose purple-stickpin over Buk....so...
pretentious or not, you gotta give her credit for giving Buk a shot.
as much as we love his writing I think it's safe to assume that back in them days he wouldn't have been the easiest man in the world to live with.
he doesn't play up the tortured artist trip in his writings but he no doubt would've seemed that way to a traditional woman expecting a typical domestic situation.
the thing that makes you write, the beast within, loosens up WHEN you're writing, but sometimes it bangs around inside and refuses to be written out and you're left feeling irritable & grouchy & moody.
plus he was an alcoholic & gambler...so I'm sure he would've been a handfull back in those days no matter who he had married.
i think she got a WHOLE LOT more than she bargained for. she was merely playing with poetry...while Buk was the REAL deal.
anyway, i felt sorry for her & Buk when I saw that pic of her in Sounes' Bio.
it is a touching photo and he looks genuinely gentle & protective.
poor little chimp-neck lady...looked a bit crippled...and Buk mentioned her in a story or poem and referred to her as a "real looker"...but she wasn't, poor dear.