There's several different Bukowskis: There's the writer and the character in his stories, and for each of those, there's the mask (the way he presents himself), the way he thinks he really is, and the way he really is...]
Hi there Bad Horse
Yes he could be sexist and comes across hostile (and a bit strutting and preening: the novel
Women) but a lot of it was tongue in cheek. Yes he does portray
some women as predatory and selfish, that’s because they do exist, equally he describes women who are independent and strong willed.
Nor do I get from his writing that he thought a woman’s place was in the home. He actively supported female writers, he offered to marry Frances Smith when she was pregnant, accepted her refusal, but acted as a responsible " co-parent ".
I’ll argue that he did love and admire women ( not just as sex objects).
I’ll take his crude honesty, over mealy mouthed closet misogynists any day of the week.
As for the rest of humanity; he wrote, how
we all feel about it at times; so there is disillusion, despair and cynicism, but there is also pain, love and compassion, read more of his poetry and you will discover this.
Far more concerning to me is the prevailing misogyny displayed in contemporary music and culture, where women and young girls are being objectified. Bukowski is the least of it.