From the above I read about a snotty, bourgeois type religion, not what I think you intended Scribbler...
I think you can be an anarchist and have accomplished things similar to what you have mentioned (minus most of your 'parentheses' words), except I disagree with the "complete control over your would-be controllers" bit (sounds to me like a snake eating its own tail) and also "when no one else ever gets affected by your glee and travail", your own secret or not, I'd just love if someone (especially close to me) wasn't affected by my own "glee" and hard work.
Interviews and essays I've seen, read or heard by Bukowski all seem to have, in one way or another, advocated his love for (legs and) his own personal freedoms, have illustrated very clearly how he wasn't a controlling person, and the contempt he had for the menial 'job'. There is a big difference between a 'job' and work I feel.
I do not feel if asked that Bukowski would say, "Yes, I am an anarchist", of course not, I just feel that it is food for thought....