I'd say yes, too much for that condition. I'd go the step up for the copy in Australia that sounds like it's in 3X better condition. (shipping to and from Australia is not as bad as you think, and make sure you ask for 20% off, most of the sellers will comply, especially if you buy from them directly and not through ABE (tell them that is your intention).
I would even consider the next step up, the copy from Jeff in Berkeley... he's a good guy, and how cool is it that the signed and dated sheet is bound upside down?!
Good luck, and hope you're happpy about the woman situation.